Biblical principles for finding a godly spouse.

Christian Dating Values: Biblical Guide

Finding a godly spouse in today’s world is no small feat, but Christian dating values rooted in Scripture offer a clear path. In a recent Ask A Christian Podcast episode, Jade shared her journey on a Christian dating app, sparking a lively chat about seeking a partner who loves Jesus first (~1:06:34). From biblical principles to practical tips, we explored what it means to pursue relationships that honor God. Let’s dive in!

Christian Dating Values: A Biblical Foundation

Jade’s criteria were clear: her match must read the Bible, love Jesus, and ideally serve in ministry (~1:11:05). This aligns with 2 Corinthians 6:14: “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.” Christian dating values demand a shared faith, as a godly marriage reflects Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:25). In the episode (~1:09:03), we discussed ChristianCafe.com, a platform for faithful singles. For more on biblical relationships, visit our homepage. What’s your top priority in a godly partner?

Navigating Modern Christian Dating

The episode highlighted the challenges of digital dating, like algorithms flagging innocent phrases (~1:07:00). Yet, Scripture guides us: 1 Corinthians 7:39 permits marriage “only in the Lord.” Jade’s pickiness reflects Proverbs 31:10—godly character is priceless. Authority sources like BibleGateway affirm this, and even Christianity Today—despite its quirks—notes the rise of faith-based apps (see here). For deeper insights, see our spiritual growth section. How do you stay discerning in dating?

Practical Tips for Godly Relationships

Seek a partner who pursues Christ (Colossians 3:1–2), pray for wisdom (James 1:5), and guard your heart (Proverbs 4:23). Jade’s story (~1:10:59) shows the value of community—Chris offered his wife’s matchmaking skills! Test every relationship against Scripture, not emotions. Share below—what’s your best dating advice for Christians?

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